Wednesday, February 22, 2012

images of Kathleen and family




The first image is Kathleen Lucille Byers at about age 2, in 1918. Her mother was Nell Byers (formerly Nell Hill) and her father was Arthur Byers. The picture was probably taken in Augusta, GA.

The second image is Kathleen when she was about 16, about 1932. The third (the small one following that) is of her mother Nell, taken about the same time, probably in Augusta, GA







The fourth image shows Kathleen studying in a science lab. Presumably this would be when she was about 20 in about 1936. It was probably taken in Athens, GA at the University of GA.



The fifth image is Kathleen (now Kathleen Byers Lindsey) holding Patricia Ann (who later went by just Ann), in 1949. This would be in Atlanta.












The sixth image is Kathleen holding Beth (Ann's daughter) in 1979, in Virginia.








The seventh image is Kathleen with William John (aka Jay) her husband in about 1982.














The eighth image is Kathleen with her red convertible. She bought it about 1998 and had it until about 2007.




The ninth image is, from left to right, Ann, Kathleen, John (her son who died in 2008) and Martin (who is writing this). This image is from Kathleen's 90th birthday party in October 2006. She had a much bigger party in October 2004. It was also a retirement party as she left a part time job with the State of GA that month also.




The tenth image is Kathleen at a dinner at the Lenbrook. This would probably be in 2010.

Below are remarks made by Katie Smith in July 2012,

".I have so many wonderful memories of Nellie B and Bath Lake.  It seems like we drove over to see them nearly every Sunday.  Mama told me we spent a summer there the year after Mary Sue was born and she would throw her bottles out of the crib to break on the concrete floor before they could get there to stop her!  What a game!  We also enjoyed the mtns with the "shack" right next door.  One summer after I graduated from college Nellie B took you and me to the Isle of Palms because it rained so much in the mtns we got sick of it!  We stayed at Mrs. Watkins which is still there only it is an office building now.  No air conditioning, and very saggy mattresses of old cotton tufted that were hard to be comfortable on.  She was quite a sport and absolutely adored you.  Didn't mean to get off on such a rant but you really brought back such a flood of happy memories.  Wish I had a picture of John in his pink slacks he wore when he brought your Mama down here to visit Susie for their birthdays.  She was so tickled and just loved it.  Kathleen was always such a lady and looked beautiful always.  As Bob Hope said, "Thanks for the memories""

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

At a Debutante Event in 1985

We continue to get more images sent us. This one (Katie Smith, formerly Katie Hill, sent it) was from  November 1985. Kathleen (at the right of the image) was at the Piedmont Driving Club at the Harvest Ball for the Atlanta Debutante Club.  

Kathleen was a guest. Susan (then Smith)'s date was John Parker (left most person in the image) from the Citadel.  As of 2013 (26 years later), Mr. Parker was a Marine Col. about ready to retire.

Monday, February 20, 2012

Reference to another site

The Obituary, a picture of Kathleen and a Guest Book is on a DignityMemorial site.

The URL for that site is:

http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=Kathleen-Lindsey&lc=4946&pid=155887437&mid=4996664&locale=en-US

Dignity says they plan to maintain the site indefinitely.

Friday, February 17, 2012

Program at Memorial Service




Remarks by Jim Bell at Memorial Service



Remarks at Memorial Service for

Kathleen Lindsey-Byers
by
Rev Jim Bell, Minister of Music at Peachtree Christian Church
Feb 17, 2012

Remembrances of Kathleen

On behalf of Kathleen’s daughter, Ann and her son-in law, Martin Weiss and her grandchildren George and Beth, I would like to thank you for attending today’s service.Dr. Kathleen Byers Lindsey was three things to me; she was my surrogate mother, my borrowed grandmother and my Auntie Mame. I first met Kathleen 25 years ago when I walked into the choir room at Peachtree Christian Church. Kathleen was a member of our Sanctuary Choir; she sang in the soprano section. Kathleen was not a loud dramatic soprano who constantly needed to be stifled, on the contrary, Kathleen was a quiet and retiring presence in our choir. In fact, I barely heard a note out of her the whole time she sang in the choir. She was a good musician though and later I learned that she had initially set her sights on majoring in music.Over the years Kathleen became an extended part of the Bell family. She was always there for Martha and me and our children. When Beth and George were children and came to visit Kathleen and her husband, Jay, Kathleen would often invite my children, Elisabeth and Jamie, who were roughly the same age as Beth and George, to tag along. Beth and George, your grandmother loved you so much and was so very proud of you and your accomplishments. When you grew into adulthood and visited her, we would often go to the Broadway CafĂ© on Briarcliff Road and enjoy their Kosher food. We always enjoyed our times together at the Broadway. Beth, I know you cherish the trip you took with your grandmother to the Holy Land. I think that trip made a great impression on you and perhaps influenced your decision to move to Israel. Several years ago, I had the good fortune to travel to the Holy land and while in Jerusalem, Beth was able to join us for dinner one evening. Kathleen was so proud George and his law school experience. George was able to pass the bar on his very first attempt, quite an accomplishment. The last time George was in Atlanta, we went by to pick up Kathleen at Mario’s Beauty Salon on Briarcliff. Tony, Kathleen’s hair dresser for decades, had been in treatment for cancer and had just returned to work. George was so thoughtful to go into the beauty parlor to greet Tony. I’m sure Kathleen insisted though.Kathleen had a very active mind, was interested in many things and especially loved dancing, travel, reading and collecting exotic friends. Dr. Lindsey was a member of the Atlanta Writer’s Club and the DAR. Once I attended a meeting of the Atlanta Writer’s Club with Kathleen, she was an officer. At the meeting which was at the Wimbish House, there were gentlemen who wore monocles and ladies who smoked little cigars in long cigarettes holders. It made quite an impression on me. It was at the DAR that Kathleen met Frances Martin, a Wagnerian soprano who sang at the Bayreuth Festival in German. Frances was a legendary beauty in her day and she was courted by the Wagner heirs and sang with the likes of James King and Birgit Nielsen. I remember the time when Kathleen scheduled a luncheon for the three of us. I was summoned to appear at Kathleen’s house at 10:00 in the morning at which time we were served Bloody Marys. After an hour of Bloody Marys and conversation, we piled into Frances’ 1950 something Chrysler and drove the Swan Coach House for lunch. It was like a scene out of “Driving Miss Daisy” . After retiring from Piedmont Hospital and moving to Lenbrook, Kathleen got bored and renewed her medical license at the age of 86. Can you imagine renewing your medical license at 86 years of age. She then took a part-time job reviewing Medicare claims. It was there that she met and became friends with Martha Mitchell, her retirement buddy. Several years ago, Kathleen attended a retired Physician’s reception at the Academy of Medicine. She came back and reported that it was sort of depressing because some of the Doctors were on walkers and others were in wheel chairs. I reminded her that she had arrived, glamorously attired, and driving a red convertible [note by MHW: the images above show Kathleen at about 86 with her red convertible and the driver's license she renewed at age 90] . Special mention should be made of Kathleen’s lifetime neighbors on Wimbledon, Bobby and Susan and their lovely mother, Dorothy. They were such loving and supportive neighbors. After moving from her home, Lenbrook became a vital part of Kathleen’s life. Kathleen lived at Lenbrook for 11 years and those were some of the best years of her life. When she first moved to Lenbrook, there were two other ladies who arrived at the very same time, Marie Lanham and Ellen Ritz. Kathleen, Marie and Ellen became fast friends and lived life to the fullest. They would pile into the red convertible and off they would go. They often came to the church for our Senior Adult events and for our worship services. Marie and Ellen died some time ago but their families have remained loyal and faithful friends to Kathleen. I want to express my sincere thanks to Bill and Jackye Lanham, Gayle and Frank Mitchell and Stephanie and Bill Reeves who always remembered Kathleen during the holidays and at other times as well.Kathleen loved the Halloween Costume Party at Lenbrook and was overjoyed the year she won wearing her shinny green wig. This year Kathleen wanted to go as Lady GaGa. I did not know who Lady GaGa was but Kathleen did and she coached me on what props I would need to gather for her. Several years ago Peachtree members, Estelle Wisdom and Elizabeth Holcombe moved to Lenbrook and they became Kathleen’s special Lenbrook friends. Special mention should be made of Kathleen’s other life-long church friends, to include Frances Carlton, Kathleen Mainland and Ida McKnight. I would also like to thank Eric Duke, Lenbrook’s Activities Director, for putting up with Kathleen and all her requests and suggestions. Kathleen was a typical stage mother and she was always promoting my wife, Martha and me to sing programs at Lenbrook. She could be a tough customer and a hard sell. Thanks Eric for always entertaining Kathleen’s requests and acquiescing to her demands whenever possible. Again, I wish to thank Lenbrook and her residents for providing a beautiful and safe home for Kathleen. Her time there was filled with many activities, many friends and much joy.

Jim Bell also led the choir during the memorial service.

Music during the service included Beethoven's Hymn to Joy (sung by whole congregation), the Lord's Prayer (Malotte arrangement sung by the Choir), Psalm 23 (sung by whole congregation) and The Lord Bless You and Keep You (John Rutter arrangement sung by the Choir).

Scriptural readings were Isaiah 40:28-31, John 14:1-6; Revelations 21: 1-4, Proverbs 31 (abridged- aka the 'woman of valor', Aches Hayil) and Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 ('there is a season...)

Jim Bell not only led the choir and gave the remarks. He also loaned us a car for us to use subsequent to Kathleen's death (so we could drive to the memorial service, etc.).

Obituary Printed for the Memorial Service

Kathleen Byers Lindsey 1916-2012

Below is what we sent to the Atlanta Journal Constitution. We also sent a shorter version of this and that is what they published as an obit. However, the longer version was in the program given out at the Memorial Service. The image of the version in the memorial service and also the program is on a separate Post.

Kathleen Byers-Lindsey, M.D., 95, Atlanta’s First Female Board Certified Anesthesiologist

Dr. Kathleen Byers-Lindsey, 95, died peacefully on Saturday, Feb. 11th surrounded by family. Dr Byers was honored in late 2011 at a reception for Medical College of Georgia alumni in Atlanta. At the time of her being honored in 2011, she said, “I don’t know if pioneer is the word or not. The time had a lot to do with it…I’m just happy to have done something that I enjoyed doing for so long.” It was only the latest recognition for a lifetime of service for this modest pioneer in medicine.The daughter of telegraphers with Southern Railway Co., Kathleen chose to go to medical school at the Medical College of Georgia and graduated in 1943, one of only three women in that class. The country was at war and new doctors had their pick of where to go. Kathleen chose to go to New York City to do an internship at Flower and Fifth Avenue Hospital. During her internship, she became interested in anesthesiology. She completed a residency in that specialty at the Bellevue Hospital, studying with Dr. Emery Rovenstine, founder of the American Society of Anesthesiologists, who also taught her colleague, Dr. Perry Volpitto, who was the first Chairman of Anesthesiology at the Medical College of Georgia, the first academic anesthesiology department in the South.She practiced briefly at the Baptist Hospital in New Orleans and then returned to Atlanta in1947 to work as a staff anesthesiologist at Piedmont Hospital. She became board certified in Anesthesiology in March of 1952, one of the first female board certified anesthesiologists in the U.S. and the first in Atlanta, Ga.Later in her career, Dr. Byers-Lindsey worked as a rating board physician for the U.S. Veteran’s Administration and later as a part time reviewer for the Georgia Department of Human Services. She retired from the latter position in October 2004 at the age of 88.From 2001 until the time of her death, she resided at The Lenbrook, a retirement community in Buckhead. She married the late William John Lindsey, a pharmacist, in 1948. She was the mother of two children, Patricia Ann Weiss, and the late John Byers Lindsey. She is survived by Patricia Ann, who lives in Potomac, Maryland, with her husband, Martin Weiss, and two grandchildren, Tamara Elizabeth Weiss of Ramat Gan, Israel and George Arthur Weiss of Potomac.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Lenbrook Helps Us Some More



Lenbrook Helps Us Some More




We've been packing Kathleen's possessions for pick up by charity or giving it away to Lenbrook staff or taking home.Today, one of Kathleen's neighbors (Mary White) spent about 4 hours helping Ann do this. After this, Mary helped Ann about 8 more hours. As noted Richard Prince helped us by taking the telegraph hardware (this even though we had inadvertently discarded some things he had lent to Kathleen). Mrs. Fisher gave us some packing tape and the staff helped with everything they could (e.g., Dave in food services made sure we had plenty of boxes).


About two or three dozen people have expressed their affection for Kathleen to us.
The images are the street level entrance to Lenbrook (top) and a view from the top floor of the Lennox residential tower (bottom) where Buckhead high rises are in the foreground and Atlanta midtown high rises are in the background (on the left).
















Thursday, February 9, 2012

Lenbrook Helps Out Again



Thursday, February 09, 2012

Sir, You dropped the good Stuff

I (Martin Weiss) went shopping at Kroger today. It is only a few blocks from the Lenbrook where Ann and I are staying while Ann's mom adjusts to being in the health care unit there (she had been in the independent unit).


I took a Lenbrook shopping cart to the store, filled it up and was taking it back. I had a 12 pack of MGD 64 in the bottom shelf of the cart. The top part of the cart was also pretty full.

Evidently, as I went over a bump in the sidewalk, the beer slid out and I didn't notice.

A guy (an employee of Lenbrook as it happened) was walking behind me. He pickup up the 12 pack and brought it to me and said, "Sir, you dropped the good stuff." (or something close to that).


That is pretty much the template at Lenbrook. Everybody wants to help everybody else: staff, residents, visitors.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Virtual Visit from Beth to Kathleen



Tuesday, February 07, 2012

KBL visits Beth's Apartment in Ramat Gan




Well it was by IPAD and Skype. The IPAD and Skype assistance was provided by Jamie Bell whose parents are good friends of KBL. KBL was in Piedmont hospital after having a heart attack. Jamie had asked us to let him know if there was anything he could do for us and voila. We asked. Ten points for Jamieclaw (or possibly Hufflejamie).